Last week was a whirlwind week; it began with fight
and almost nearly ended with fight. Yes, living with someone is not easy task.
I wonder how our parents did it for such a long time. I came home from office,
hungry and slightly irritated. Erik asked me to bring dinner and I was asking
him what he prefers and it irritated him. I brought chicken, not cut into
pieces but a big part, and he said he do not want to eat as he can't see how
chicken body parts are dismembered. Hence more irritation and more anger. And
we ate dinner in silence and making up for fights afterwards but probably the
bad vibes remained somewhere. With on and off irritated moments the week passed
on and again it blasted off on Thursday night. Erik has developed a habit of
watching a movie or documentary to go to sleep and reluctantly I agreed. As we
were watching movie, like always, he began playing with his iphone not even
looking at the movie much. It irritated me a lot and he had done it before as
well. So I barked at him and he got pissed of. He accused me of trying to
control him which further infuriated me. Both of us were irritated and angry
and I went to sleep without even talking more....... wondering if we have done
everything fast. He came to me, apologized, we talked, solved out and made out same night. Next day
and night it was all good and then I left the town for the work.
Now I am far far away from him, before he goes away for a
month to his home. Then we will meet somewhere in delhi to explore India. But
the question of rushing keeps coming back in my head. Is this how everyone goes
through when they are living together or is it us who are having this. Yes,
life is not Disney movie with happy moments only but again sometimes you just
feel why things are not near perfect.
I just hope these are phases we go through before we create
magical moments. Hope for the best.