Sunday, March 27, 2011

Memories are wonderful things, if you don't have to deal with the past.

Everyone has some issues, well not just some prolly a lot. Who doesn't have? Even you do, don't you?
I have no idea why i asked this question, but as i look at this half empty water bottle this question keeps popping up: Are memories wonderful things, if you don't have to deal with the past? I had good times and bad times both in relationship and beyond it. I always thought i will always cherish them. They were once part of my moments that shaped so many things. But as i delved back to those I realize they are wonderful when only you don't have to deal with the past.
My Ex was always worried about my friendship with my other flings. He never allowed me to have any kind of friendship or whatsoever with them and made me swore I would not hurt his beliefs. I did all i could to make him happy. And today when we are broken up, i see him friend'in them on fb. Now what changed the dimension?  And this strange worry hits me out of the blue what if they start kindling their relationship and share information about me, would that change anything. I swear I have no idea why I thought this way and it doesn't make difference even if they decide to marry eachother. But definitely this thought provoked me to think the heading of this post which in fact is dialogue from movie called "Before Sunrise".

Talking about the movie, this is one hell of movie I saw and it's sequel titled "Before Sunset" is as terrific as the first one. Both do not have very compact and dramatic story except talking and lots of talking between it's lead actors. No the movie also do not have antagonist who would make protagonists' life miserable. The movie deals with so many themes particularly of self discovery. The movie also ignite the sense of romanticism in you, I bet if it didn't in you I would never watch the movie again. But it also reminds you of chill reality: most of the times romanticism is gulped down by the realism.

Remember last time i was talking about magic.The movie has a perfect line that justified what i said which was "you develop it when you start exploring". Actually the movie line is as below:

If there's any kind of magic in this world it must be in the attempt of understanding someone sharing something. I know, it's almost impossible to succeed but who cares really? The answer must be in the attempt. 

Isn't it so true?

P.S. To my two very special friends: I should have told about my new blogging habit but it never occurred to me to share during our conversations. I hope you are not mad at me and as you can see, I haven't mudslide both of you here, so no reasons to feel bad :)

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